Wondering..

Unsure that I am doing things the right way.
By giving us a break, I thought that we can think things through and hopefully come up with a solution.
However, I’m greatly disappointed.
For the things that you “said”.
I do know what is going on in your life. I really do. Just that I refuse to comment does not mean that I do not care. I do not know what exactly is the coldness that you often speak of.
I do not know what to do now. Just waiting for tomorrow to come, giving myself the next 25 hours to think of nothing.

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  1. I dun really know how to explain the “coldness” that I’ve said. It’s a feeling that I had. I’ve disappoint you yet again.. =*(

    uglyken

  2. Someone once commented that for 2 persons to get together in Singapore, it takes 1 out of 2,000,000 chance. Come to think of it, for 2 persons getting together on planet Earth… The chances are 1 out of 3,000,000,000…….

    Hence, it will be easier to strike the ToTo than for 2 persons getting together. From an Uncle point of view, a relationship is built upon love, faith and lastly (and often the most neglected) communication. A relationship will encounter problem when the 3 “pillars” are not balanced. Very often, communication becomes the root of rocking the other 2 pillars. Or I should phrase it this way: MIS-Communication can cause faith to waver and love to fade because the wrong message was being sent across to each other. Thats the power of the tongue (words). It is an double-edged sword where a relationship can be built or collapsed.

    Therefore, a heart-to-heart talk on all the issue thats bothering you and mrBF must be in place before any decision should come to pass. On all the issues raised, be sure to make your concerns known and to understand mrBF’s concerns as well. The 2 of you must come into agreement and sometimes, compromises (you 2 are different in your own beautiful ways afterall) together. Work out action plans and give time to see results. Changes dont happened overnight.

    Uncle just hopes that everything turns out well afterall. What’s a relationship when everything is so smooth sailing? No challenge, no kick and no nothing… ZzzZZz. Personally, I dont believe in a relationship thats in a bed of roses. Best wishes to you and mrBF.

    P/s: A bed of roses is terrible… Why? Roses have thorns… =)

    Uncle

  3. I’ll change for the better… for you and for us.. I also need you to give me a helping hand, give the de assurance that I needed so much. With you by my side, nothin is difficult..

    uglyken

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