thisirksme.
I seriously hate it when people break their promises to me.
Be it a minor one like,
cancelling on me last minute,
or not doing the homework I gave (my student).
I know that there are reasons for the above actions,
but have they considered my feelings?
How would I feel?
Like what I always tell my student.
Treat others the way you want them to treat you.
If you want people to dote on you,
you should dote on them first.
Somehow,
the people around me do not seem to operate with that saying in mind.
They think that it is alright to cancel on people with little or no notice.
They think that as long as they apologise,
it is enough.
IT IS NOT.
Last Saturday,
I was walking alone in Orchard after I was cancelled by someone.
Someone I had not meet for ages.
All because he said he had work to do.
How would you feel?
If you had waited for the person for 4 hours,
then he just tell you that he cannot make it due to work.
Is it my fault?
Why do I have to suffer and bear the consequence?
Why you cannot tell me that earlier?
To save me the trouble of going down in the first place?
Why do you have to tell me that you are taking me out,
then cancelling on me just the day before it,
by telling me that you are too tired?
Do you know that I was looking forward to going out,
with you,
to a place I have never been before?
Do you know that I have been waiting for the arrival of the day for the longest time?
But,
by informing me that you are not going to be able to make it,
because you are flying off already,
this is going to sadden me alot.
Even more when the notice is not being told to me personally.
I wonder,
is this what I deserve,
for asking for so much,
from you,
for asking to be out,
with you.
????
JF???????
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